Personality.... (PLEASE READ)
Blog Entry: Personality.... (PLEASE READ)
Blog Entry: Personality.... (PLEASE READ)
So, a while ago, I got a comment asking if I was really serious, and saying that they were worried that if they talked to me, I would get mad. This kind of woke me up a little.
Yes, I'm serious a lot. I do tend to make long comments a lot. But I usually only go into "serious mode" when someone's asked for my help, or I'm offering it. It works better for me. I can communicate information clearly, and precisely. However, looking back, whenever I go into this mode, I do tend to get a little cold and impersonal. It's not you, it's me. Like I said, that's how I convey information clearly. Sometimes, though, I don't pop back out of it right away. ^_^'
Also, sometimes I do get a little snippy. But, usually only with people who are rude to me first, leave a single word comment, or are otherwise acting stupid. However, I try to give people a chance usually, and have made some friends of people I might have chewed out. Despite this, like all people, I do have bad days sometimes. My life isn't always as wonderful as I'd like it to be. But, if I'm having an off day, I will do my best not to take it out on you guys. I will either do one of two things: Realize that I'm a little snippy and try my best not to take it out on innocent people, or I will simply avoid replying and interacting until I'm feeling better.
I'm not a social person by nature. Making friends is tough for me. I'm shy and clumsy, get emotional easily, and always seem to be taking on other people's problems. I developed the "shell" as a defense mechanism, and only recently have I begun to lower it. I'm not proud of a lot of things I've said and done because of it, not only on here but in real life too, but I'm making an effort here to change.
FAC-goers, I ask a favor of you. If you want to talk, you should initiate the conversation. If I'm acting funny, call me on it. Chances are, I'm not aware of it. Don't be afraid to give constructive criticism. And above all, follow the golden rule: Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you. Respect me, I'll respect you. Be friendly to me, I'll do my best to do the same. Trust me, I don't bite. Unless you're a sirloin steak, which is another matter entirely.
Yes, I'm serious a lot. I do tend to make long comments a lot. But I usually only go into "serious mode" when someone's asked for my help, or I'm offering it. It works better for me. I can communicate information clearly, and precisely. However, looking back, whenever I go into this mode, I do tend to get a little cold and impersonal. It's not you, it's me. Like I said, that's how I convey information clearly. Sometimes, though, I don't pop back out of it right away. ^_^'
Also, sometimes I do get a little snippy. But, usually only with people who are rude to me first, leave a single word comment, or are otherwise acting stupid. However, I try to give people a chance usually, and have made some friends of people I might have chewed out. Despite this, like all people, I do have bad days sometimes. My life isn't always as wonderful as I'd like it to be. But, if I'm having an off day, I will do my best not to take it out on you guys. I will either do one of two things: Realize that I'm a little snippy and try my best not to take it out on innocent people, or I will simply avoid replying and interacting until I'm feeling better.
I'm not a social person by nature. Making friends is tough for me. I'm shy and clumsy, get emotional easily, and always seem to be taking on other people's problems. I developed the "shell" as a defense mechanism, and only recently have I begun to lower it. I'm not proud of a lot of things I've said and done because of it, not only on here but in real life too, but I'm making an effort here to change.
FAC-goers, I ask a favor of you. If you want to talk, you should initiate the conversation. If I'm acting funny, call me on it. Chances are, I'm not aware of it. Don't be afraid to give constructive criticism. And above all, follow the golden rule: Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you. Respect me, I'll respect you. Be friendly to me, I'll do my best to do the same. Trust me, I don't bite. Unless you're a sirloin steak, which is another matter entirely.